zondag 9 juni 2013

Is death punishment for our sin?



10th Sunday in Ordinary Time
June 9, 2013

First Reading: 1 Kgs 17:17-24
Psalm 30:2, 4, 5-6, 11, 12, 13
Second Reading: Galatians 1:11-19
Gospel Reading: Luke 7:11-17

Who among us did not suffer the lost of a loved one – a parent, brother or sister, wife or husband, son or daughter, relative, friend, etc., due to pain, sickness, suffering and death?  Nobody.  Also, is there somebody or anybody celebrates or rejoices, and laughs and be happy when someone lost a loved one?  No one.  Rather, he or she extends his/her condolences, sympathy, support financially and morally, if not spiritually.  We all understand the difficulties, (such as emotionally, physically, psychologically); the feelings and emotions (i.e., sadness, fears, anxiety, loneliness); the hopelessness, when one of the members of the family dies.  As if we lost everything we hope for, we lost the future and the present, we lost the energy and enthusiasm to continue living, as if it is end of the world, our world is melted away, and as if we lost everything we have.  When someone dies in our family, we die also with him/her because we lost one part of our body, of our life.  It is really terrible event, when one dies, to those who left behind. 

Although, we know also that those who went ahead of us or died before us were already enjoying the beatific vision of God, that they see face to face their Creator and Lord, but for us who are still alive, it is hard for us to accept the death of our loved ones because we cannot see them any longer, we cannot hear anymore their voices, their laughter, their advice, their paglalambing.  We cannot talk to them and walk with them, to listen to them and to live with them; to dream with them for better future and to grow old with them even until the last breath we wanted to live together, to stay together, forever, if possible.

Nevertheless, life is very short and unpredictable.  Now, you see them active, healthy, strong, happy, full of life and joy; but, suddenly, tomorrow or instantly, we see them sick, bed ridden – you cannot talk to them because they are in coma, in ICU, in the operating room – nag-aagaw-buhay, they cannot move, paralyze, dead and gone.  We even say, he is still very young.  She is very beautiful and active.  He has many plans in life.  She is marvelous and wanted to marry and have many children.  He is at the top of his life.  He is like superman – a man of steel.  But, suddenly, in just an instance, in just a wink of an eye, he is gone.  She has left us – dead.  Death has sting in our life.

In the first reading, the mother in Zarephath and the mother in Nain in the gospel, both widows and their only hope and chance to survive in a chauvinistic and patristic society are their sons, now dead.  You can imagine the sufferings and pains of a mother in Nain – though she was silent but deep inside she was crying long and hard, her heart is broken, her eyes wet and red of tears, because she lost everything, even life.  You too can imagine the widow and mother in Zarephath, that was full of complaint to Elijah, because after giving everything to him – the last food (bread and oil) they have and letting him to stay in her house, her son felt sick severely and stopped breathing (cf. 1 Kgs 17:17).  She was accusing Elijah for her sin (1 Kgs 17:18). 

Does God punish us of death because of our sin?  Remember the fall of man and woman in Paradise because of sin of disobedience and the remarks of the widow in Zarephath.  Or is it our destiny (tadhana) that our time has come and we have to go back to our Creator, in whatever means, as death is the key to return to God, our Father and Redeemer?  That our real life and home is not here on earth but in Paradise called Heavenly Kingdom of God – as what Jesus said to the one of the thieves, “Today, you are with me in Paradise.”

Elijah and Jesus, when these two mothers and widows suffered death of a son, became compassionate.  When the Lord saw her, he was moved with pity for her” (Luke 7:13).  If they can bring life to them they will do it, in whatever manner, in whatever possible prayers.  And God listened to their pleas and prayers because God understands the importance of life at that moment and the sincerity of the heart. “The LORD heard the prayer of Elijah; the life breath returned to the child's body and he revived” (1 Kgs 17:22).  Jesus even touched the coffin, which is prohibited by the Law, and even the dead son, broke the Law, just to show his sympathy to the mother in Nain.  Elijah put his own body on the top of the dead boy’s body three times just to beg and make pleading and supplication to God on behalf of the mother in Zarephath. (1 Kgs 17:21).  And how many people, you and me, praying to God for the life and safety of their and our loved ones.  All these prayers were heard by God and responded to them, though in different ways and manners, yet He answered. 

You can also imagine the joy and happiness of a mother, or a father, and family members, of the mothers in Zarephath and Nain, when suddenly their sons were brought to life and given back to them alive.  “The life breath returned to the child’s body and he revived” (1 Kgs. 17:22).  “The dead man sat up and began to speak, and Jesus gave him to his mother” (Luke 7:15).  All anxieties were gone.  “Do not weep” (Luke 17:13).  There is amazement and awe of what had happened.  They cannot believe that their loved ones are alive, seated on her lap (1 Kgs 17:19), seated on a coffin and began to speak (Luke 7:15) – Mother! Father! My brothers and sisters! My friends!  What a wonderful sight, what a wonderful miracle!  There will be music and singing and dancing, and rejoicing, a grand celebration for a dead son has come to life!  "See! Elijah said to her, "your son is alive.“ (1 Kgs 17:23)  The mother in Zarephath said: “Now indeed I know that you are a man of God, the woman replied to Elijah. The word of the LORD comes truly from your mouth” (1 Kgs 17:24).  The people in Nain exclaimed: “A great prophet has arisen in our midst,” and “God has visited his people” (Luke 7:16)!  We can sing also, as the psalmist sung, “I will praise you, Lord, for you have rescued me” (Ps. 30).

Question(s) for Reflections:

1.  Do you believe that because of your sin, you are punished by God, and death in the family, and even pain, sickness, sufferings, poverty, kamalasan, etc. are brought by your sin?

2.  Does God punish your sin and the sentence He gives you is death of a loved one?  Or does God’s reward is death to His people whom He loves, for example Jesus His beloved Son died and rose from the dead?

3.  Do you believe in Tadhana, or time or the death of loved ones have come and it is time to go back home – in Paradise or in Heaven?

4.  Is death a key to enter into the next life or into a new better world?

5.  Do you believe in the resurrection of the dead, as Jesus rose from the dead, and that our religion – Catholicism, is born on the Post-Resurrection of Jesus from the dead?

6.  Can you say also, “A great prophet has arisen in our midst,” and “God has visited his people” (Luke 7:16), when death come?

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